Setting expectations and parameters and having a common
language for expected behavior is crucial to any school community.
At Harding, the Community Code is introduced when students
arrive in kindergarten and is the foundation for our common language. Teachers speak consistently and
directly to students about the Community Code through eighth grade. It contains the seven most important
tenets for our expectations for behavior and reads:
As a member of the Harding Academy community I will
- Be
Kind
- Be
Honest
- Be
Respectful
- Be
Open
- Be
Dependable
- Be a
Learner
- Be My
Best
In all grade levels, teachers model best practices when it
comes to the expectations for students. We teach and model good behavior, and
take the time to stop and teach when the educational moments occur.
Having accountability to others is one of the best ways to
foster a positive climate. All of the Harding students are paired with a buddy
and all of the students are in a ‘House’ system whereby they engage in varied
and intentional activities together throughout the year. Community service is
another excellent way to put others ahead of oneself and is an integral part of
the curriculum. Every grade level has their own community service initiative,
we have two all-school initiatives each year, and the middle school students
have two days per year when they take the day to go into the community to
serve.
Our guidance counselor moves throughout the school
reinforcing these principles by working with the faculty, meeting with
individuals, groups and classrooms, highlighting the power of kindness, the
importance of listening and reaching out, and emphasizing the values that our
community code encourages.
The faculty, administration, and staff model our Community
Code as well because we believe in the principles that are encouraged for our
whole community, as well as the strength of “walking the walk.” We realize that
our actions have at least as much impact as our words.
At each grade level, there are intentional ways that we
foster a positive learning environment:
In Kindergarten
- Teachers
introduce, and go over, the Community Code. As needs arise, they fold it into discussion - for
example, how do you say you’re sorry?
- Teachers
take the different points of the Code and read books, make charts and
remind students about it throughout year
- We
don’t let kids choose partners in order to avoid exclusion
- They
may not exclude students who ask “to play” with them
- There
are daily references to the Code…are you being your best?
In First Grade
- Students
and teachers work together to start the year off building community in
classroom
- They
talk about the Community Code and about how we treat one another
- They
read books with relevant themes aloud and discuss them together
- Table
tallies are used where students earn points or lose points towards various
rewards
- A
Cracking the Code chart is used to help students measure their positive
behaviors
- A
Jewels in a Jar (compliments) system is used whereby ‘jewels’ are put in
or taken away according to positive behavior
- Children
seen doing something positive are Caught in the Code and given a
certificate (which can be very motivating at this age)
- Teachers
intentionally work on a part of the Code every week
- Classroom
rules are developed with the Community Code being the guideline
- Daily
discussions based on behavior that occurs will refer to the Code
- Students
are assigned random tables at lunch at certain times in order to make new
friends and sit with different students
In Second Grade
- Classes
use morning meetings, questions of the day, writing prompts and more to
create and foster a positive classroom environment. This also has the
benefit of everyone getting to know each other better and embracing each other's
differences.
- There
is a Responsibility Notebook that is tied to the Community Code. This
reinforces the need for positive behaviors while providing ownership of
negative behaviors.
- Teachers
and students read character books that provide fodder for important
discussions.
- At
times, lunch tables are assigned to help encourage new friendships.
- A
'Roses and Thorns' activity is used periodically to share positive
happenings and affirmations as well as to share difficulties.
- Students
engage in community service projects (UNICEF at Halloween; MNPD Christmas
Toy Drive) to understand the notion of putting others before themselves.
- Classes
use role-playing to act out situations and brainstorm appropriate
responses.
In Third Grade
- Students
are involved in group work
- Skits
on the Community Code are developed as another way to reinforce positive
behaviors
- On
Wacky Wednesdays different groups of students eat together so they spend
time with different classmates
- Sometimes
the grade may meet and have class meetings to discuss how relationships
are going
- Teachers
give stickers when students are caught doing something “good”
In Fourth Grade
- On
Wacky Wednesdays different groups of students eat together so they spend
time with different classmates
- Meet
as a whole grade level once a week to share compliments and appreciation
for one another using the
Community Code - time is given for greeting, sharing,
compliments/appreciations, problem solving and conflict resolution
- They
hold compliment parties to celebrate the kindness in one another
- Class
meetings – by homeroom and grade –
- Class
meeting twice per week utilizing the Responsive Classroom model
- Read
aloud books with relevant themes regarding character
- Utilize
a focus area to emphasize such as, ‘Be Open’
- There
is a ‘problem box’ where students can confidentially put topics in for
discussion
In Fifth Grade
- Behavior
is modeled and students are recognized for their positive actions
- There
is discussion and emphasis on working as a part of a group
- Students
engage in Lunch Bunches where the school counselor brings up relevant
topics for small group discussion
- Through
the use of literature there is discussion about how characters are
treated, and different themes for character education
- There
are read-alouds where character issues are explored
In Middle School
- Each
year the three grade levels travel on separate retreats to set the tone
for the new school year. They
engage in trust building activities, “cabin talks” to discuss inclusion
and conflict resolution, work on team building and leadership skills. Character issues and building
relationships and trust are an important part of the agenda. Student speeches are given on
various topics such as friendship, leadership and kindness.
- Each
student is assigned an Advisor and they meet every morning in Advisory
where they often have a greeting or sharing for community building in
addition to other topical conversations
- The
Life Skills curriculum is a formal part of middle school life and topics
include how to treat one another, friendship, bullying, a focus on feeling
responsible, lessons on how to handle shifting friendships, honesty,
relationship issues and addressing everyday interactions. Teachers may use video-clips or
role playing activities to stimulate discussion.
- The
summer reading books - Crash by Jerry Spinelli, for example, provide a
basis for talking with students about unkind behavior and the importance
of inclusion
- The
study of texts such as The Outsiders, To Kill a Mockingbird and Romeo and
Juliet provide a forum for teaching themes such as tolerance, respect and
not bullying
Harding middle school advisors meet with their advisees
(8-10 students) first thing every morning to check in and get the pulse of the
day, then most Monday afternoons for a full period. During these times, we
address “life skills,” which are a broad selection of topics that have been
designed by the faculty and our full-time counselor. Topics range from homework
skills and test preparation, to navigating changing friendships, conflict
resolution, empathy, assertiveness skills, leadership, building a positive
community, kindness and gratitude.
Each lesson is interactive and some are built around an exercise, film
clip, or quote, such as, “We make a living by what we get, but we make a life
by what we give.” (Churchill)
We want our students to think about who they are, and who
they want to be, how their actions affect others, how to meet challenges, push
through difficult tasks, recognize the power of kindness, and lead their lives
with integrity. We embrace this challenge as a part of our charge in educating
our Harding students together with our parents, and encouraging them to be the
best that they can be.
It’s also crucial that in all of the other areas of school
life--art, music, computer, physical education, theater, or athletics that these
lessons be incorporated so that students receive a consistent message. For
example, in physical education students are recognized for their positive
behaviors each week and their photo is placed on the ‘Watch Me Wall.’ Additionally, there are times when
students are placed in small groups and they accumulate points as a group as
they demonstrate inclusion or being a good sport and thereby earn a treat.
In computer class, for example, students can earn stickers
for doing something extra kind or special. Additionally, Computer Class of the Week awards with
handwritten notes for being exceptional to reinforce good behavior are given to
students. Even at lunch and recess it’s important to be aware of student
dynamics--teachers may even help to choose teams or tables to be sure that
students are modeling inclusivity.